The 4th of July!
It's America's birthday!
The United States of America counts its birth from July 4, 1776.
Why is that a special day?
From the many years from 1607, when the English created their first permanent colony in the New World at Jamestown, Virginia, until 1776, England controlled most of the eastern part of North America. Called the 13 colonies, these colonies, from Georgia in the South to New Hampshire in the North, took their orders from London. The first settlers who came from England to live in America brought their culture, Christian religion, and of course language, with them. That's why the USA is an English-speaking country today, and it explains why you are reading this blog in English right now! (See how history influences the present?) Anyway, those early settlers thought of themselves as Englishmen living in America...but still Englishmen! At that time, the decision to move from Europe to America was nearly irreversible. Once you got on the ship, you knew you would probably never go back to Europe again. So, eventually those first English settlers married, had children, and died in America. Their children almost never traveled to Europe, but because they had heard their parents talk about English often, they too thought of themselves as Englishmen...living in America. But over the years and decades, something happened. It was gradual, not sudden, but with each passing generation, the mindset slowly changed. More and more, many of the people of European descent in America no longer thought of themselves as English, or Germans, French, or Dutch, etc....but rather as something new: Americans.
So, with the passing of the years, England and the Americans slowly drifted apart. Yes, both spoke English and ships regularly traveled back and forth acros the ocean, but since America was so far from England, and it took months for ships to travel that far, and since Americans had to solve their own urgent problems like Indian attacks, building roads, and running schools, etc., the Americans slowly began to take more responsibility for their own lives and did not look to England for as much protection and guidance.
So, by the 1760s and 1770s, when the English King George III kept putting more controls and taxes on the American colonists, there was more and more American anger!
At first the anger was in the forms of protests, letter-writing, etc., but eventually it became violent, like in the Boston massacre and finally open fighting took place at Lexington and Concord, Massachusetts, on April 19, 1775. That was called "The shot heard round the world." See the video! War had begun between American citizens and English soldiers.
But even though war had begun, the 13 colonies still belonged to England! For that reason, delegates from the 13 colonies met in what is now called Independence Hall in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, to discuss possible independence. The debates went back and forth for weeks. Finally, the delegates agreet to have a team of five members write a Declaration of Independence, claiming that the United States of America is an independent country, and explaining why we had the right to break away from England. The main author of the Declaration of Independence was Thomas Jefferson of Virginia. You can read the Declaration of Independence here. You may notice that the Declaration has many references to God.
In fact, the delegates voted for independence on July 2, but since they did not vote to accept the Declaration of Independence until July 4th, that day is now considered the USA national day. Read more about it from History.com.
This video explains why we have fireworks on July 4th!
Even though the delegates voted for Independence, King George III of England did not care. He ordered armies and fleets to America, to crush the rebellion. This led to about five more years of warfare, called the American Revolution or the War of Independence. The main American general of that war was George Washington, of Virginia, and the final main battle was Yorktown, Virginia, in 1781. Do you see the Role of Virginia in USA history?! So when you study with DreyerCoaching.com, based in the US state of Virginia, not only do you learn more about English, but you learn more about American culture, history, and thinking too!
How do Americans celebrate the 4th of July today?
July 4 is a national holiday. This means there is no mail, and all banks, schools and government offices are closed. Many private businesses are closed too. Since many people have the day off from work, they are able to spend the time with their family and friends. Here are some of the many things Americans do to celebrate that day.
- Because it's summer, many people go to WATER-- pools, rivers, lakes, or beaches! (See our family's lake cook-out to the right; note the grill at back.)
- put US flags or bunting out
- wear red, white and blue clothing or hats
- be thankful for our freedoms. In English we have a saying, "Freedom is not free." The USA is independent, and has remained so for over 200 years, because of the brave soldiers who first won and later defended those liberties. Sometimes it's easy to focus on the food and fun but forget the meaning, and this cartoon reminds us that LIBERTY is the meaning of the day.
- watch fireworks at night. It's usually hot during the day on July 4th in much of the USA, so it feels great to go out at night, after it gets dark and cool, spread out a blanket on the ground with your family and friends, and look up at the sky and watch the great fireworks. Cities, towns, businesses, and churches across the USA sponsor firework shows at night.
Here is a video from the July 4th fireworks and music in Washington, DC.
Learn more about July 4th:
ELCivics.com (intermediate level)
Voice of America (advanced level)
This day in history (advanced level)
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In the United States, we celebrate Memorial Day. It falls on the last Monday of May, so it will be May 28 in 2018. On Memorial Day, we remember all the soldiers who have died while fighting for our country. People wave flags and hang them from their porch. Many people hang their flag at half-mast on that day, to honor the fallen. (Below see a flag at half mast at a popular fast food restaurant, Chick-fil-A, to honor the loss of First Lady Barbara Bush.) We also have Veterans Day, in November. Veterans Day honors everyone who has ever served in the United States military, whether they survived battle or not. However, Memorial Day specifically honors those who have died while serving their country in the US military.
Because Memorial Day is a national holiday and it falls on Monday, a week day, many businesses and activities are closed. (In the USA, we have about a half-dozen holidays that always fall on a Monday. This is so we Americans can have more beloved "three-day weekends," when we get a break from Friday afternoon till Tuesday.) As with many other holidays, including Christmas and Easter, the initial purpose of the holiday has been lost, or made less important, over the years. For example, Memorial Day is thought of as the unofficial start of the summer. Some schools end their year the Friday before Memorial Day. Outdoor pools open on Memorial Day, and since the weather is usually warm by late May, many people go to a nearby lake, river, or have a cook-out that weekend. Stores have Memorial Day or Memorial Day Weekend (the Friday, Saturday, and Sunday before Memorial Day) sales featuring low prices for summer clothes. The city that hosts the headquarters of DreyerCoaching.com, Roanoke, Virginia, hosts Festival in the Park on Memorial Day Weekend.
These are all terrific activities and a great way to spend time with family and friends. It can also be great weather, a great reason to spend some time outside. But Memorial Day was enacted to remember the soldiers who paid the ultimate price to protect our freedom and ability to live in the United States. It is because of them that we can have Memorial Day activities. In many towns, there is a parade downtown on Memorial Day with a military band like this one.
These two political cartoons show us how people's thoughts about Memorial Day have become less focused on the soldiers and more focused on the activities. Being able to interpret a political cartoon and identify the symbolism, irony, and overall message is a great intellectual skill. It is a fine way to keep your mind sharp.
This cartoon has a man grilling his food, making sure he has everything ready for the Memorial Day picnic. He doesn't want to forget anything, but the picture reminds us he is forgetting about all the soldiers who have died.
Mother's Day is a major holiday in many countries of the world, on the second Sunday in May. It is a major holiday in both the USA and Canada, but since it is always falls on a Sunday, it does not usually change one's work or school schedule.
Mother's Day is a day to honor and thank one's mother, and in many families, also a grandmother. Since it is always on a Sunday, that usually makes it easier for families to get together.
How we celebrate it in the USA
Like most holidays, different families celebrate in different ways. And of course, there are some people who do not celebrate the holiday. Maybe they have, for whatever reason, painful memories or experiences regarding their mother, or motherhood. However, there are some common ways this day is marked.
- Church attendance: Since Mother's Day is always on a Sunday, many families go to church together, and the children or grandchildren sit with their mom or grandmother. Many people who do not attend church regularly as a habit, will go on this day, to support mom, so church attendance is usually higher on this day than normal Sundays.
- Church activities: Most churches recognize Mother's Day in several ways. In many if not most, the clergyman will deliver a sermon, or message from the Bible, based on the role and importance of mothers. (It is widely recognized, that in many churches, women are more active in attendance and paraticipation than men, so women play a crucial role in church as they do in family.) The Bible teaches that mothers are important. Proverbs 31:28-19 reads:
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.” (NIV)
In many churches, the congregation will give each mother a small gift, or maybe the children of the church will enter the sanctuary and give each mom a small gift, like a handdrawn picture or a flower. In many churches, the pastor will ask questions to honor certain mothers: Who is the youngest mother here today? Who is the most experienced mother? (This is a nice way of saying, "Who is the oldest mother?") Which mother has the most children? Which mother has a child the furthest away? (Once the pastor at the church my parents attend in Virginia asked this question. My mom raised her hand, because I was in Taiwan, but another woman raised hers too, because she had a son in Germany, serving in the US Army. At that point, a discussion erupted: Which is further away, Taiwan or Germany? To which my dad answered, "I think Taiwan is about as far away as you can get, until you start coming back again." That year, mom won that prize.) A student from Germany recently spent three weeks with us here, and he said, at his church in Germany, all the members have a cook-out for Mother's Day after the Sunday service.
Take a look at this video from a US church service on Mother's Day: and the woman who is speaking and singing knows a lot about Mother's Day--she has 7 kids!
- Lunch together: It is common for families to eat lunch together on Mother's Day. (Most moms say they do NOT want to cook or wash dishes that day!) So, most restaurants are packed. After several years' of bad experiences waiting for hours in crowded, noisy restaurants, our family eats our Mother's Day meal at home, but the men and children in the family are responsible for the meal--and the clean up.
I do not pretend to be a gourmet chef, but I did not want my wife or mom to have to cook on Mother's Day. So, we plan to grill hotdogs and hamburgers, and I made this bean salad so we'd have something healthy to go with it.
Mrs. Dreyer's 3-bean Salad:(healthy, quick, AND easy!)
- 1 can of green beans
- 1 can kidney beans
- 1 can garbanzo beans (also called chick peas)
- (You can also substitute canned wax beans, pinto beans, red beans, black beans, etc.)
- 1/2 cup sliced green pepper (optional)
- 1 medium onion, sliced thin
- Dressing: Heat on stove 1/2 cup cider vingar, 1/3 cup cooking oil, 1 teaspoon salt, 1/2 teaspoon black pepper
- Pour dressing on the salad, chill in the refrigerator and enjoy!
- Cards and Gift: Most children and husbands get a nice card and gift for mom. Common gifts include flowers, chocolates, new clothes, gift cards to mom's favorite restaurant or store, etc. When children are on their own and away from home, they might ship a gift to mom, or at least call her on the big day.
Here are some flowers that some of our children gave their mother for Mother's Day: they knew purple is their mom's favorite color!
Watch how these two young men answer the question, "What does Mother's Day mean to you?"
This is very funny at Mother's Day or almost any time, because "The Mom's Song" takes many things a mom (or dad) will tell a child in 24 hours, and reduce it to 3 minutes. Take a listen! (And you can read the lyrics too--it's fast!)
Many years ago I heard a story from family expert Dr. James Dobson, that has always been in my mind. This story is from many decades ago, before the age of computers and cell phones, when people made calls from phone booths. He said that a card company, I think Hallmark, wanted to do something good for society so they brought a phone line into a prison for a day, to let each inmate make a free call to his or her mom, for Mother's Day. The outreach was more successful than any company executive had dreamed, because all the prisoners came to the courtyard and stood in line for hours, to call mom. In fact, the event was so successful, the company leadership decided to redo the offer in June, for Father's Day. However, that time, the outreach was a failure. Why? Only a few prisoners came out to call dad; instead, most stayed in their cells. Dr. Dobson said this story illustrates how important a role moms have, in that those prisoners all wanted to call mom on that day. However, the story also shows how important fathers are; in this case, most prisoners either did not have a dad, or did not have a good relationship with their father, so they did not bother to call home. Furthermore, Dobson suggested that it was this poor father-child bond that may have contributed to so many people ending up in prison in the first place. So, moms and dads are both important, though maybe in some different ways.
Grammar question: How do you write this holiday? Mothers Day? Mother's Day? or Mothers' Day? This article explains that actually all three are gramatically correct, but each grammar change brings a small change in meaning. However, the woman who created the idea of Mother's Day wanted it written as a singual noun with the apostrophe BEFORE the "s," so that ishow we will use it here: Mother's Day.
Groundhog Day is on February 2 and it is a minor holiday. The main idea of the holiday is, if February 2 is a sunny day and a groundhog sees his shadow, then there will be six more weeks of winter. However, if he does NOT see his shadow that day, then it means spring will come early this year. Of course this is not science; it is folklore. Still, it makes a fun story and each year news shows report on what the groundhog sees.
Groundhogs are a very common wild animal in the USA. They can grow to be the size of a big cat or a small dog. You often see them by the side of the road or in people's yards, eating grass or weeds. In fact, many people consider groundhogs a pest. This is because they like to burrow and dig holes in the ground to live in. If a cow or horse steps into one of the holes, it can easily break its leg and there is no way to fix the broken leg. Therefore, many farmers and horse owners do not like groundhogs at all.
Since groundhogs are a common animal, some people are surprised to learn there is actually an "official" groundhog for Groundhog Day! His name is Phil, and he lives in a small town in the US State of Pennsylvania called Punxsutawney. In fact, the club that takes care of Phil even has its own website, groundhog.org! The custom of watching a groundhog in tiny Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania dates back to 1886! (You can learn more about the history here.) Each year on this date, some of the men in this club wear fancy black coats and hats and tell the world if Phil saw his shadow that day or not.
Since "All things are connected," "Groundhog Day" is not only a small holiday--it has also become a phrase in the English language! This is thanks to a 1993 comedy movie with Bill Murray where he is a weatherman sent to Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania to do a news report on Phil the Groundhog. At the start of the movie, Murray is a selfish, arrogant person, and he gets stuck in the small town he does not like and with people he does not like, because a snowstorm keeps him from leaving. However, not only is he stuck in the town, he is also stuck in a time warp, and he keeps reliving February 2 over and over, until he learns some important life lessons and "gets it right."
So today, some people say "It's like Groundhog Day" to represent something boring that happens again and again.
- Billy hates his job. He does the same boring stuff with the same boring people day after day. He says it's like Groundhog Day.
- None of us like Mrs. Smith's history class: she just talks Monday through Thursday and gives us a test every Friday. It's like Groundhog Day.
Watch a short video clip about the movie here.
For lots more about Groundhog Day, check out this from elcivics.com.
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Presidential Turkey Pardon:
One of the funniest of the Thanksgiving traditions is the annual "presidential Turkey pardon." The US Constitution gives the president great powers, including the power to pardon an accused person of a crime. In a humorous twist, there is a tradition of the US president "pardoning" a turkey at Thanksgiving, saying that that turkey will NOT be eaten. Some claim that tradition began with President Truman in 1947, while others believe it began with President Lincoln during the Civil War. (read more here.) Starting in 1981, under President Reagan, it became the tradition for the spared tukey to live out his life at a children's farm. For many years, the turkeys enjoyed a happy retirement at the ironically-named "Frying Pan Farm" in Northern Virginia, close to Washington D.C.
However, recently the spared turkeys have been sent to Virginia Tech, a famous engineering and research univerity close to the world headquarters of DreyerCoaching.com. On the Virginia Tech campus, there is a spot called "Gobbler's Rest," where they will live.
After Thanksgiving 2017, a friend of mine from Taiwan drove to the Tech campus and saw Drumstick and Wishbone, the two turkeys pardoned by President Trump. (Scroll to p. 38 and read the article here, on the top right corner of the page.)
It's another funny USA holiday tradition!
Since many people stay up till midnight on New Year's Eve, December 31, to "ring in the new year," those people may sleep in and wake up a bit tired on January 1. And for those who felt the need to hit the bottle on New Year's Eve, they may enter the first day of the new year with a headache too!
New Year's Day is a USA federal holiday, so banks, schools, national parks, and post offices, etc. are all closed, as well as many businesses. (In fact, schools and colleges are all closed for about a two- to four-week period, in honor of Christmas and New Year.)
Frankly, compared to Christmas, in which excitement builds for several weeks, New Year's Day is generally low-key. Many people sleep in that day, and they may later call, text, or visit friends or family, wishing them a happy new year.
One traditional New Year's Day dish is "Hoppin' John." It's made with black-eyed peas, tomatoes, and cornbread. Some believe eating it on January 1 will bring good luck in the new year. I still clearly remember New Year's Day, 2015. My family and I had just moved into our new home, which is also the office of Dreyer Academy LLC, just a few days before, during the week between Christmas and New Years. (As teachers, we wanted to move during a time when school was closed, so we did not have to teach, and could just focus on the move.) By January 1, parts of our house had been set up, but we still had lots of boxes sitting around too. (Moving is a lot of work and hassle!) Mom and Dad wanted to give us a break, so they came over that day and, while Dad helped us unpack some boxes, Mom made Hoppin' John for us. It was delicious, and it was great having a hot, homecooked meal made for us right there, so we could enjoy that in the middle of our busy unpacking day.
Here are some photos of us enjoing Hoppin' John on Jan. 1, 2018, at home. The recipe is here.
With a new year, many people also like to think back on the past year, evaluate what went well and poorly, and make plans for a more successful new year. This is the end of the so-called "holiday season," because most K-12 schools and all stores and regular jobs get back to normal on January 2. (One exception is colleges: their spring term classes normally start one to two weeks later.)
With all the extra eating and festivities from Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's, many people have put on a few pounds, so for many people starting on January 2, one of their main goals is to lose some weight!
New Year's Eve is the night of December 31. "Eve" means the night before a big holiday, like in the word "evening," so December 24th is Christmas Eve. ("Eve" is also a woman's name; according to the Bible, she was the first woman on earth, wife to Adam.) New Year's Eve is basically the end of the so-called "holiday season," the time stretching from Thanksgiving to New Year's Day. (Some would now say the "holiday season" in the US starts on Halloween, October 31.) Read more about Christmas and the "holiday season" here.
Since New Year's falls exactly one week after Christmas, this is a special time of year. For example, practically all schools and colleges are closed during this period. Most US colleges are closed for about one month, from early December to early/mid January. Most colleges have their fall semester exams before the Christmas (winter) break, so students returning in January start the spring semester. All K-12 schools are closed for Christmas too, usually for about two weeks or so. Most classes resume on January 2. This is why the online classes at DreyerCoaching.com also pause for about two weeks at this time each year, and restart on January 2.
New Year's Eve is such a big holiday, most businesses close that day, or at least close early. For example, most grocery stores that are open 24/7 all year, close only twice a year: over Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, and again on New Year's Eve until the morning of New Year's Day, January 1.
Americans celebrate New Year's Eve in many ways. Some prefer to stay at home, just with family, and have a quiet evening. Others like to invite some friends over, or else go out with friends. Many people like to stay up till midnight and "ring in" the new year. Some families like to stop right at midnight, hold hands, and pray as the new year starts, asking for God's guidance and blessing in the new year. For many people, drinking alcohol is a big part of New Year's Eve. While some people must think it's fun to hit the bottle, we should also remember that drinking and driving is very dangerous, and can hurt or even kill people. Plus, it seems to me, it is better to wake up on the first morning of the new year feeling good and fresh, instead of having a bad headache or hangover.
Since the world is round and has 24 time zones, different parts of the world celebrate at different times. For us here in Virginia, USA, we are 13 hours behind East Asia, and six or seven hours behind Europe, so if we check the news around lunch time, we'll see news reports of New Year's Eve fireworks in places like Australia, Hong Kong, or Taiwan, and around dinner time, we'll see celebrations from London, Berlin or Paris.
Here is a video of some New Year's Eve celebrations in Asia! Notice how beautiful the fireworks in Hong Kong are-- you can enjoy them in the sky AND reflecting on the water of Victoria Harbor!
My wife and I had a remarkable New Year's Eve 2016, welcoming 2017, on board a small boat in Hong Kong's famous Victoria Harbor. You can practice your listening and hear the story here. Check out some of the images from that beautiful night, below.
One iconic New Year's celebration is watching the ball drop in Times Square in New York City. Starting on New Year's Eve 1907 to welcome 1908, there has been a ball drop slowly from a pole to welcome the new year each December, except for 1942 and 1943, because of blackouts for World War II. Some report that more than 1 billion people watch this on TV, and thousands crowd into Times Square that day, to get a spot to watch it. Since the crowds are so huge, people have to go early that day to get a spot, and if you leave, you won't get your space back!
You can watch a video of the 2017 Ball Drop here. Listen for the traditional New Year's Eve song, Auld Lang Syne, right at the stroke of midnight. Since the famou ball drop is in New York City, listen next for the famous Frank Sinatra song, New York, New York.
On New Year's Eve, in addition to celebrating, many people think back on the past year, both the good and bad things that happened, and make plans for the new year just ahead!
To find out about the next day, New Year's Day, read here!
Thanks for reading!
Zig Ziglar (1928-2012) was an author, salesman, and for many, America's premier motivational speaker. He had a way to teach deep truths in a simple way most people could easily understand. (As long as they could understand his Deep South accent, that is!)
I have long been a big fan of Zig, and when he was in his 80s, his health began to fail and he made fewer tours. So, when I found out he was going to speak at the Salem (Virginia) Civic Center, I jumped at the chance to go. I am so thankful I did get to hear him in person, for that was his last visit to our area.
I have enjoyed reading several of Zig's books, but I always found his quotations to be my favorites. Take a look here.
Since he was born in 1926, he grew up in the Great Depression, which began with the Stock Market Crash of October 1929. Remarkably, he remembers a Christmas when he was just six years old...and it was just seven weeks after his father and baby sister had died! His newly-widowed mother had eleven remaining children, and eight were still living at home! It is amazing what he remembers from that day, and the simple gifts he received, yet how much he enjoyed them.
You can read Zig's own story, in his own words, here.
Christmas, by far the biggest holiday in the American calendar, falls on December 25 of every year. Still, this holiday is so important in so many ways, it tends to occupy one month or so.
The Holiday Season
To learn about Christmas, we need to first discuss what most Americans call "the holiday season." True, we have holidays at different times of the year--Easter, Memorial Day, July 4, etc. But in the US, what we call "the holiday season" starts in about late November, with Thanksgiving, and lasts about five to six weeks until January 1. (Nowadays, you could almost say the "holiday season" starts around Halloween, October 31. This is because Halloween is now the second-biggest US holiday as measured by consumer spending, plus one often sees Christmas decorations and items for sale in stores by Halloween.) This is a period of time marked by many parties, dinners, decorations, gift-giving, etc. In fact, thanks to all the parties, dinners, and gifts of things you can eat, many Americans complain of gaining weight over the holidays. So, early January is a time when many people join gyms, in an attempt to lose the extra pounds and get back in sharp. Sadly, many of those people give up around February.
Our students at a Christmas Party at friends' home
This blog post is designed to give you a sense of some important traditions and elements of the Christmas holidays in the USA.
Christmas Tree & Ornaments
Many Americans buy a Christmas tree and place it in their home. Many offices, hospitals, etc. also have Christmas trees. Some people prefer artificial, or man-made trees. These have several advantages. First, cost. You can buy one tree, even a used one, and use it year after year. It is also easier. It is simple to put together, its needles do not drop, and you do not need to add water. It is also safer. They are made of a material that cannot burn. Still, many other people prefer the real trees, for these have some advantages too. It is fun to go out after Thanksgiving and pick your tree. Some people even drive to a tree farm and cut their own tree. When I was young, my dad owned a farm and we would cut a tree from there, for free. Plus, many people prefer the look and smell of a live tree in their home. If you have a live tree, you need to add water to the container at the base ever day or so, because the tree still continues to suck up water, even after it has been cut.
After you put up the tree, you can decorate it. This is a favorite Christmas tradition for many families. Some families have decorations they have passed down for several generations. Others like to have decorations that their children made, or they have photographs of their children on the decoration. Those are especially fun to look at after the passage of many years. Just this year I was looking through a small box of some "odds and ends" that my grandmother left us. In it I found two old, small clips with candle holders attached, and at once I knew what they were. They were used to clip to the Christmas tree to hold the candles that her family used to use for decorations, before they got electric lights. We also have a small "nativity set" decoration that our daughter made, because it says "Sarah 12-01" on the back. People have boxes that they use just to hold their Christmas ornaments and items; after the holidays, they box up the items and put them away until next December.
Many people decorate the outside of their homes too, with lights, trees, wreaths, greenery, and other colorful items. The main colors of Christmas are green and red.
Christmas artwork made by Deborah Dreyer
Greenery with red berries
American home at Christmas
The longer I live, the more I realize one of my favorite parts of the Christmas holidays is the music, called carols. There is a whole body of music that is dedicated to the Christmas season. Many radio stations start playing it around Thanksgiving, and they play it 24/7 until December 25. Then, when you wake up on December 26 and turn on the radio, it's all gone. The music basically falls into two categories: religious and secular. Some of the religious songs are hundreds of years old, and these all focus on the origin of Christmas, and the celebration of the birth of Jesus.
One particularly famous religious carol is O Holy Night, about the night when Jesus was born. Probably the most famous Christmas carol is Silent Night. One popular carol about a legendary little boy who came to play his drum for the Baby Jesus is Little Drummer Boy.
One well-loved secular carol is Sleigh Ride (listen for the horses' hooves, neighing, jingle bells, and cracking whip.) (To learn the difference between "sleigh" and "sled, read my blog here. These have the same word in Chinese.) Another popular one is White Christmas, here recorded by Bing Crosby in 1942, during World War II, and Holly Jolly Christmas.
With lots of time off from work and school, many people spend time over the holiday watching movies, and there are many Christmas movies and TV shows. One of the most beloved in It's a Wonderful Life, where the main character wants to take his life but is able to see how worse the world would be without him. This clip starts where George asks "let me live again," and he sees how wonderful his life has actually been. A Charlie Brown Christmas TV show turned 50 in 2015, and has become a US Christmas icon. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer is another beloved story.
Black Friday & Shopping
Since Thanksgiving is a four-day weekend for many Americans, the day after Thanksgiving has become a major shopping day and a kick-off to the Christmas shopping season. Called "Black Friday," that day has many sales and people lined up to get the bargains. Unfortunately, many stores have now moved their sales forward, onto Thanksgiving Day and evening, so many people now have less time with their families on that holiday. Christmas is such "big business" in the US, that many stores actually LOSE money most of the year, and make most of their profit in the month leading up to Christmas. The tradition of giving gifts at Christmas comes from the Wise Men giving gifts to the Baby Jesus, as recorded in the Book of Matthew in the Bible.
Many people send Christmas cards to friends and relatives, but with Facebook and social media, this tradition seems to be decreasing. Still, many people use Christmas cards as a way to contact people they may not otherwise connect with over the rest of the year.
Christmas Foods & Drinks
Since eating is a major part of Christmas, there are some special foods and beverages associated with the holiday. A popular drink that you can only find this time of year is eggnog, a mixture of eggs, milk, and sugar. Lots of people like to bake Christmas cookies, and a popular activity is a "cookie exchange." In this, each person makes just one or two kinds of cookies, in a large amount, then they meet with some friends and everyone shares theirs. That way, rather than having lots of one kind, you can get a small sample of a large variety of cookies. If possible, many families like to get together for Christmas, and the main dishes tend to be either turkey or ham. Fruitcake is a traditional Christmas dessert.
Christmas Eve Church Service
Many families go to church on Christmas Eve; most such services are around 6:00 or 7:00 pm, but some are as late as 11:00 pm. These services usually include many Christmas carols and readings from the Luke Chapter 2 in the Bible about the birth of Jesus. These church services usually include everyone holding a candle. Singing Silent Night by candlelight on a Christmas Eve, in a large room lit by candles, is a beautiful experience.
Hear David Dreyer playing "Go Tell it on the Mountain" at a recent candlelight Christmas church service.
Most families have their "gift exchange" on Christmas morning. Usually the young children wake up first and dash to the Christmas tree, to see what they got for presents Parents love to take pictures of their young children opening the gifts. Some families read the Bible story about Jesus' birth at this time. (Read the Christmas story from the Bible, Luke Chapter 2, in English, Simplified Chinese, and Traditional Chinese.) Sometime on Christmas morning, many families have a large, hot breakfast. This is a casserole my mom often made for Christmas morning, and some years I make it for my family too on that special day. Here's the recipe. All schools and most businesses are closed, so Christmas Day is traditionally a day to spend with family and reflect on the birth of Jesus and the year's end.
Do you want to know more about Christmas greenery and see many other links about Christmas? Check out this great site, WhyChristmas.com to see more!
Thank you for reading. Merry Christmas!
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Christmas is an international holiday, and is the biggest holiday by far in the American calendar. But where does Christmas come from? What is its meaning?
This entertaining cartoon story in special English will help you understand!
Read it here: The Christmas Story
Here are some vocabulary words from the story that might be new for you, with their Chinese translations:
(I write this story in the form of a Personal Narrative; for more on how to write this sort of essay, read this.)
Charlie Brown is an American cultural icon. And a famous cartoon is the 1966 "A Charlie Brown Christmas." A key moment in the film is when Charlie Brown, with exasperation, cries out, "Doesn't anybody know what Christmas is all about?!"
You can see an excerpt here: A Charlie Brown Christmas
But, unlike the malls, let's not rush Christmas, and focus on Thanksgiving for now.
This is my story of when I personally learned "what Thanksgiving is all about."
It was 1985. (Not 1984, the book by George Orwell I deeply enjoy.) A third year university student, I had chosen to leave my familiar environment at the College of William and Mary, in Williamsburg, Virginia, for the challenge of a Junior Year Abroad in Münster, Germany. The delights were many (being surrounded by German, the fresh bread, etc.), but the challenges were many too (being surrounded by German, the lousy weather, etc.). Looking back, I realize I was [partly] going through the classic "Four Phases of Culture Shock."
1. Honeymoon Phase (Everything is wonderful, it's like being on vacation.) That sums up the first few weeks: making friends in Germany, being surrounded by the language, setting up my dorm room, etc.
2. Culture Shock (Everything is crazy, and you feel way out of place.)
3. Adaptation (You gradually get used to the new place, and can see the pros and cons of your new situation.)
4. Enculturation (You feel "at home" in the new place.)
(Being in Germany for just about 10 months total, I probably ended up in stage 3...getting to stage 4 takes longer, and not everyone makes it there.)
But back to my story:
Since American Thanksgiving comes in late November, by that time of year I had already been in Germany about two and a half months. In other words, the "newness" had definitely worn off, and I was no longer in the "honeymoon phase." Two months of classes where everything was in German, rain and snow while I was riding my bike around town, nightfall around 5:00, plus the culture shock and homesickness (this was my first extended time away from home)...it was all taking its toll.
And then came Thanksgiving. This was my first major holiday to miss with family, and as you know, holidays are a particularly hard time to be in a foreign zone. Thanksgiving has been called "the most American, American holiday," and it does not exist in Germany--no fat turkeys, no pictures of smiling Pilgrim children, nichts.
Thanksgiving Day was uneventful: got up, rode my bike to classes (in Germany, most university buildings are scattered about a city, not clustered on a campus), lunch in the Mensa, etc. But as evening fell, I began to truly miss home. Knowing my family in Virginia, USA would be gathering to eat around lunchtime, I called them around 6:00 pm, accounting for the time difference. In today's world of cell phones and Instagram, this is hard to imagine. But 1985 was still in the Cold War, I had not yet seen my first fax machine, and there was only one way I could call my family: leave my dorm room, descend three flights of steps, walk outside the Internationales Studentenheim where I lived, and go to the single phone booth in the courtyard, out by the main street, Bismarckallee.
That night is etched in my memory. It was my first Thanksgiving away from home. By late November, the sun set there before 4:30, some 40 minutes earlier than in my hometown of Roanoke, Virginia, and when you consider most winter days in Western Germany were cloudy, it was often dark and gloomy before 4:00. It was so cold, the Aasee lake across the street was frozen over enough for people to ice skate on. I still remember the crunch, crunch my boots made as I walked across the snow-encrusted courtyard, in the darkness. Fortunately, the phone booth was empty. I chucked a few German mark coins into the slot--thunk, thunk--and dialed the number. The phone rang, and I could then hear my loved ones on the other end, at mom and dad's house. With excited chatter, they asked about how things were going for me in Germany, about their Thanksgiving meal preparations, how they missed me, etc. I gave them a brief update on life in Münster, told them how much I missed them, and we all wished each other a happy Thanksgiving. And then, as the marks' value dwindled in the phone, it was over. Dead line. Silence. I cradled the phone receiver back on the hook, and trudged silently back across the courtyard. Crunch, Crunch.
It was cold and gloomy outside, but the inside of the dorm could hardly be called a cheery place. Our Hausmeister, an older, heavy-set man, personified German thrift by keeping the temperature about as low as he could, and seemingly using the lowest-wattage light bulbs possible. I quietly climbed the dimly-lit concrete stairs, and retreated to the relative comfort of my room. At least I had decorated it as I had wished, and had added some extra lights in an attempt to brighten things up some.
It was about 6:00-ish. Many people look back on their lives and wish they had spent less money. As I look back on my life, I see some times when I should have spent more. But since my parents were across the Atlantic and a bail-out not very handy, I kept a tight grip on the purse strings. I usually took lunches in the student Mensa, where the subsidized meals were only a couple of dollars. But to stretch out my funds, I usually bought groceries at the budget Aldi supermarket, along with many of the other cash-strapped students and foreign guest workers in Germany. There has been no small excitement as Aldi opened its first store in my hometown of Roanoke, Virginia this month, but Aldi and I go way back, to the 1980's, to Germany. So to prepare my solo "dinner," I pulled out the very large loaf of bread I had bought, some butter and jams...then I sat there at my desk, which doubled as my table when I ate alone, and thought:
Why am I here?
What am I doing here?
If I had stayed at William and Mary, I could have been home for Thanksgiving, having a huge feast right now, instead of sitting in this room by myself, getting ready to eat cold bread!
(Looking back, I now see it would have been wise to find a few friends and tell them, "Hey, tomorrow is American Thanksgiving, and I don't want to be alone on that day. Can we get together and have dinner and do something fun?" But for whatever reason, I did not do that. Live and learn. But still it all worked out for the best....)
Sitting there alone, looking at my meal of bread and jam, I was overcome with sadness, even self-pity.
And to this day I don't know exactly what triggered it, but then I suddenly pushed myself away from the desk, stood up, and walked to the middle of my dorm room. Lifting my hands and closing my eyes, I began to thank God. Immediately, my melancholy vanished and was replaced with a deep-seated joy, almost delight. I reminded myself that Thanksgiving is not just about the turkey and pumpkin pie, but it's about being thankful for what you have. So I began to think of all the wonderful things I had to be thankful for at that moment: being able to study in Germany; knowing German; the friends I had there and what I had already learned; a trip to Budapest, Hungary to look forward to over Christmas; the blessing of carrying a US passport that let me travel all over the world; the money, health, and language skills I had that made travel possible.... The longer I stood there (totally alone, mind you), arms raised and thanking God for all I had to be grateful for, the more joy I experienced. To this day, it was a moment and feeling I have never forgotten. And I do now know how long I stood there thanking God--maybe a couple of minutes--but before I sat down, as I was still standing, I heard a knock at the door.
Opening my door and peering out into the dimly-lit hallway, I saw a couple of Chinese girls standing there, smiling. We had met a few times before in our dorm, set aside for foreign students, but were not what you would call "friends." As I remember, they were a few years older than me, and had wanted to study in the US but could not get the visa, so they came to Germany to attend university instead, and had arrived recently. With beaming smiles, they told me, "We have cooked a big Chinese meal, and would like to invite you to join us."
You can imagine my delight and surprise, so of course I immediately accepted, told them that today was American Thanksgiving, but that I had planned to eat a cold meal of bread and jam, until they had come to invite me. As proof, I showed them the loaf sitting on my desk, and they roared with laughter. They too expressed amazement, not knowing (obviously) that that day was Thanksgiving, and they too were glad they had invited me so I did not have to be alone. They guided me to the even more dimly-lit basement of our dormitory, but sure enough, they had prepared a veritable Chinese feast, all they had cooked from scratch. It smelled delicious and tasted even better. I tried to explain to them how I had been so sad to have been alone on that holiday, but that I had learned through that experience to be thankful for what I had, and how their arrival was like a gift from God to me. They politely nodded, and kept joking among themselves, in Chinese, about the big loaf of bread, gesturing to show its enormity and laughing some more.
That was Thanksgiving 1985, and we communicated in a mixture of English and German. I would not learn my first Chinese until 1989, when I was preparing to move to China to teach English, but those girls and I did have a few more meals together that year, and they taught me how to use chopsticks. That's why, when I moved to Taiwan in 1989, I already knew how to use them. Over the years many Chinese have, politely, complimented me on how well I handle chopsticks, and all I can say is 谢谢. 我在德国学习. (Thank you. I learned that in Germany.) The fact that a white guy from Roanoke, Virginia USA learned to use chopsticks in Germany just shows that God has a wonderful sense of irony and humor.
Months passed. I did go visit friends in Budapest for Christmas, turned 21 that spring, visited the former USSR in May, and finished the year, bagging the full 30 credits to bring back to William and Mary, where I was able to graduate on time the next year. But I will never forget that cold night in November 1985, when, thousands of miles away from home and everything familiar, from all the "props" that make us feel comfortable, I learned "what Thanksgiving is all about."
Halloween is an American holiday that comes on October 31. Unlike the major holidays of, say, Thanksgiving or Christmas, where schools and businesses are closed, this is a smaller holiday like Valentine's Day. Much to kids' disappointment, schools are in session on Halloween.
Mums and pumpkins for sale
Pumpkins and gourds for sale
Pumpkins for sale
Carving the Jack-o-Lantern
Ready for Halloween!
Learn more about the origins of Halloween in this video. You can also learn more about the history of the Jack-o-Lantern here.
Today some homeowners decorate their homes for the holiday. For most people, a Jack-o-Lantern or scarecrow are enough, but some decorations are downright spooky. In addition to decorating, many homeowners buy a few bags of candy to give out to children who may come to their door. On Halloween, often starting an hour or two before dark, children go door to door and yell "trick or treat!" Most parents prefer to go with their children, especially young children,and only go to homes where they know the residents. Coming home after trick or treating and dumping out all the candy on the floor or table to see how much "loot" they got is a joy for children on the night of October 31.
A recent alternative to Halloween and Trick-or-Treating is "Trunk-or-Treating." This celebration, usually held in a church parking lot, involves people decorating the back of their car ("the trunk") and parking their cars in neat rows, with the trunks all facing the same direction. The children still dress up, but instead of going door to door, which involves walking on dark streets and maybe going to strangers' homes, this is all in one place, a church parking lot. Plus, Trunk or Treating is with people you know, so many see it as a safer and more wholesome alternative to the traditional Halloween celebrations.
Trunk or Treating
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