First Lady Barbara BushWritten by Scott Dreyer
On April 17, 2018, First Lady Barbara Bush passed away at the age of 92. In the US, "First Lady" is the title to honor the wife of a president or governor. For example, Melania Trump is America's current First Lady, and Michelle Obama was the one before her. (In fact, every US president has been married, except for the hapless James Buchanan, the man who was in the White House right before Lincoln, as the USA was falling apart. Grover Cleveland was also a bachelor when he was elected, but he married during while in office.)
Barbara Bush was an amazing woman in many respects.
Not only is living to 92 a remarkable achievement, she and her husband, President George Bush Sr., were married 73 years-- that is an historical record--the longest US-presidential marriage!
(George Bush Sr. was a one-term president, elected in 1988 and serving from 1989-1993. I remember going to his inauguration in January 1989, when we took over following the retirement of President Ronald Reagan.)
Also, just being a First Lady is remarkable, by being married to a US president. However, what is more, Barbara Bush was not only a First Lady, but also mother to another US president, George W. Bush. (George W. Bush was a two-term president, elected in 2000, who served from 2001-2009.) In all of US history, only TWO women have been both a First Lady AND mother to a president. The other one was Abigail Adams, wife of the United States' first Vice President and second president, John Adams, and mother to sixth president John Quincy Adams.
(Unlike their husbands, First Ladies do not have a formal political role. However, they do usually take on a "cause" or a particular issue they care about, and try to make improvements in that area. For example, Barbara Bush's cause was literacy. In other words, she wanted to encourage people to learn to read and write, no matter how old they were. Mrs. Obama's cause was fighting obesity and promoting healthier eating. Mrs. Trump wants to fight school bullying.)
Mrs. Bush's son, Jeb, former Governor of the US State of Florida and former candidate for president, said he and his mom spoke about her feelings about death, the last time they met. This is what she told her son: "Jeb, I believe in Jesus and he is my savior. I don't want to leave your dad but I know I'll be in a beautiful place." Read more about their last conversation here.
In the USA, when a very famous person dies, or there is some terrible tragedy like 9-11 or such, the flags are flown at half-mast to represent a nation in mourning. When Barbara Bush passed away, many flags at post offices, stores, and even private homes were flown at half-staff. The week she passed away, a young man from Germany came to visit us here in Virginia. He said they do not have that tradition in Germany, and this was his first time to see it done. Below is the flag at a Chick-fil-A restaurant at half-staff, in honor of Mrs. Bush.
In honor of Mrs. Bush and her passing, we chose some of her quotations as our "Thought for the Day" in our social media campaigns. Here are a few:
- The darn trouble with cleaning the house is it gets dirty the next day anyway, so skip a week if you have to. The children are the most important thing.
- The Titanic was built by professionals. The Ark was built by volunteers.
- Giving frees us from the unfamiliar territory of our own needs by opening our mind to the unexplained worlds occupied by the needs of others.
- You may think the president is all-powerful, but he is not. He needs a lot of guidance from the Lord.
- At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent.
The funeral for Mrs. Bush was held on April 21, 2018, in Texas. Because of her fame, many dignitaries attended her memorial service, including this photo that shows President Bush Sr., President Bush Jr. and his wife, Presidents and Mrs. Clinton, President and Mrs. Obama, and Mrs. Trump. It shows how American leaders came together at that important moment.
She was beloved by the Secret Service agents who protected her and her family. Read one agent's account here.
By Eric Draper, White House Photo Director and personal photographer for President George W. Bush - St. Mary's Today, smaller version published in a Press release by The White House, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=1920745
A licensed teacher in the US state of Virginia since 1987, Scott Dreyer has been helping Chinese speakers improve their English since 1989. Dreyer lived in Taiwan from 1989-1999 where he learned Mandarin, met his wife, started his family, and realized he loved working with Chinese students. He became an award-winning author and started teaching ESL online in 2008. Dreyer and his wife and their four adult children make their home in the beautiful Roanoke Valley in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia.dreyercoaching.com/en/about/scott-dreyer
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